Tuesday, October 05, 2004

Are you part of the Club??

"The time to trust is not just when all is calm.
The most important time to trust is through raging storm"


Trust. Faith. Patience.
Where are they?
Has she lost them totally?
Trust and faith in people and where is her patience level?
What is happening around her? What is happening to her?

For the past, half year she has been dealing with people, from broken relations!!!
Is that a coincidence or is it just happening or is the virus spreading?
It can’t be happening like this!
Is it that no one can handle anyone and end up being hurt?
What are we looking at?

Don’t people want to be cared?
Don’t they want to be loved?
Yes. She wants that too.
But, what did she do to keep her relation in place?
She could have done that, to help the situation….
But, do these “could have” help now!
Too late…..

Something which she learnt from her lonely days is treat people the way you like to be treated and handled….
Won’t this make people, more realistic and warm towards the rest and try to set things right.

She was astounded by the number of people she met.
Why are we doing this?
We fall in love; handle another person’s feelings…..
Find things aren’t working out….. for whatever reason that might be
And end up hurting ourselves and our loved one….. or, the one whom we loved !

Is it true that, these ‘boyfriend’, ‘girlfriend’ relations don’t last long, because they are bound to end after a year or so? Or did she hear that wrong? Or were the words uttered due to all the bitterness, inside ones heart?

Won’t a little of adjustment, compromise, understanding help to stop people reaching that “broken soul” stage?
Or is it something not possible?

People born and brought up in different environment and lifestyle, find everything perfect initially.
Later, when the interests clash…… thoughts and views are on a strike…… total cold war situation arises….. Can’t a little adjustment from either of them possible?
She has learnt from her mistakes……. But is it necessary for everyone to go through this trauma…..
But aren’t there people, who have undergone this…enough number of times in their life time? Why? Were they not handled properly? Were they those people who fall under the very sensitive and emotional category?
How is it to go through the same again and again to reach closed doors?
Definitely this would make them feel, every relation is just worth a year or so….

With her chest paining, she wished she could extend a hand to those who are in this mental trauma.
May be speak to them, make them realize what can be done now…. Instead of “I could have done that”!

With all these thoughts running, Anne was looking at a couple who were busily arguing about something in the shopping mall.
Few words, which drifted her to her thoughts, were
“You don’t understand me, what I am going through” she complained.
“Ohhhh , look who is speaking. You aren’t like before…. You have changed a lot… cant you see things are changing between us” he replied, crossing his hands…

Oh no!!!!! Hope they realize…..
Anne was pulled at her sleeves by Riya, who wants to get to the waiting car to see her boyfriend!